Wednesday, February 10, 2010

What an honour and a privilage!

I have discovered the most delightful and supportive group of people to befriend!

Every fortnight the Campbell River Pride group meet, 'check in' and talk about all sorts of random stuff. Tonight was no exception. This group ties for first place as the most genuine, interesting, fun and caring group of people I have ever met.

When I got home tonight I burst out crying, overwhelmed by the laughter, strength and sharing offered tonight. I heard people's coming out stories (which for some had started this week and for others hadn't occurred because it was just never an issue), love stories (including 'how we met' stories as well as 'what my current partner/s like'), what it is like to be a woman versus a man, what it is like to be a child facing queer issues in a small town in the 1970's compared to today, learning to learn about self, learning how to be self protective without being judgemental of the world, what it is like to be a parent, spouse or child of someone who identifies as queer and more. Honestly, it was the most fun I have had since being in Canada and I am so happy and thankful to be connected to this group of truly amazing individuals.

I look forward to the next meeting two weeks from now. THANK YOU to everyone who made tonight so special for this human so far away from home.

Kristiana

Friday, January 29, 2010

Sleepover

This morning I had a hint of a sunrise - just a crackling of orange staining the grey sky, trying to erupt forward and make a reflection upon the wide sea below.

This morning was not in the sunrise's favour.

However, the clouds had lifted enough to see the lovely snow capped mountains on the neighbouring island of Quadra (at least I think they're on Quadra), and they looked quietly majestic surrounded by the morning clouds.

I don't usually get to wake up to the Ocean but last night was a sleep over at Kimberley's place to watch a certain TV show we're both fans of... Unfortunately last night was a repeat episode for no apparent reason, but at least I got to see the ocean and mountains this morning!

It felt good to see the ocean first thing. I've very much missed weekly beach trips to get cleansed... But I am don't quite miss them enough to venture into the freezing waters kissing Campbell River.

Maybe I'll get desperate enough soon...

For now some sunshine would be nice??
k

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Marlene and my new home.

I moved into Marlene's house yesterday. Marlene is an apparent ninja - one of those 60-something year old women who get's a million things done a day to keep herself busy. She is quite awesome (and bakes too!).

The new house is about a 20 minute walk from work which is great because it means I will be forced to do exercise despite the unappealing cold. Also on the way to and from work I pass the community ice-rink and swimming pool complex which hopefully means I will have an excuse to use both!

The best part about being located next to the community ice-rink and swimming pool complex is that I discovered snow (sort of)!

The significance of the snow discovery is I was requested to do three things while here and two of them involve snow. Now, being the ignorant foreigner that I am, I didn't realise that frozen pipes didn't equate to snow. (I know, it may seem strange to live with such cold conditions without the 'luxury' of being able to 'play' in snow, but that's ok...). Point is, now I can accomplish two snow related activities - 1) Make a snow angel and 2) Have a photo of Tara throwing a snowball at me (because it is should be a classic moment: very pregnant lady throwing icey weapons at the defenceless giant Aussie).

I'll post photos when the mission is accomplished!
k